In a similar vein, I sometimes like to look on dating sites – like – to see what single women are in my area that I might be interested in were I in the market for a new woman.I do this knowing I’m not in the market for a new woman.
You had a fantastic time on your date—and he did, too. “You may never know for sure what's up with him,” says Marla Martenson, a matchmaker, author and motivational speaker.
At least, that’s what you thought until he suddenly dropped off the face of the planet. “It could be that he is seeing multiple girls, or he is just not that into you. Get out there and date like a guy.” If he still hasn’t responded to your texts after a week, stop dwelling on that dude and move on.
While guys enjoy the pursuit, they hate it when you act in a way that is deliberately trying to get them to chase you. And to be clear, that is not what I’m talking about here.
I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.
When a guy has you and gets to keep you without really putting in much effort, your stock inevitably goes down in his mind.
At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!
Humans have been playing mind games with each other ever since the dawn of time.
Mind games were used to win wars and bring peace between nations.
But when should you stick around, and when should you run out the door?