I agree that he wouldn’t be spending time communicating if he wasn’t somehow attracted. Maybe be found someone else, he moved on to another text partner or got scared off somehow. You know what you need to know: he isn’t a grownup man looking for what you want. When a man is a serious guy interested in getting to know you, you know it. But if there is no actual in-person contact – beware!
But if he’s solely texting, he’s either not looking for a serious relationship or doesn’t think of you as a potential partner. Most women know a guy who texts once in a while as a kind of check in. He tells you how much he likes you and what a great woman you are. He says how busy he is and how he’d really love to see you soon. That guy is what I call a “pinger.” Pingers want an ego boost.
So…you meet a cute girl, make her laugh, maybe even kiss her and at the end of the night you walk away with her number.
However you need to also ask yourself just how well it went.
If you slept together for instance then you are suddenly permitted to be far more close and presumptuous in texts, and if you stayed round without sleeping together that still gives you license to text more quickly and act more 'coupley'.
The perception is that texting too early could be seen as over-eager and impatient, but at the same time not texting at all might mean that you lose the momentum and that you come across as not interested.
Guys, trust us on one thing: When it comes to sending text messages, most of you don't know what you're doing. We either have no idea what you're talking about, your spelling is at the level of a second-grader, or the jokes are just not translating. But, sweetie, there's no character count in text messages.
At least it's safe to presume it went well, as otherwise you probably wouldn't need to be reading this article it's very easy to know what to do after a date went badly.
However after a good date things are not so simple and there is much more riding on the outcome. Here we will look into the logistics of what to do next, and how to ensure that you don't scare him away or give off the signals that you aren't interested.He’s feeling entertained and he’s enjoying your responsiveness. If you agree to keep participating, expect to have a false sense of connection and unrealistic expectations. I can’t tell you how many emails I’ve received from coaching clients with a text conversation pasted in and the question: What do you think he means (aka WTF)???? If you are getting texts along with calls and dates, then excellent!Or maybe he’s just enjoying being able to talk about himself. I have seen countless women create fantasies and get drawn in — often before they even meet a man. Here’s the truth: If you aren’t spending time together, you do not know him. Honestly, half the time I don’t know what a guy means based on twelve words on a screen. Instead, I recommend that she invites him to call her in a kind and open way. He’s interested in getting to know you and likely looking for a relationship.Don't start texting until your relationship is older than 60 days.If you go along with her desire to text and take easy way out, you will be OUT the easy way.[Continue Reading…] There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. Read on to discover the 21 shocking mistakes men make when texting girls, so you can avoid them like the plague…