I will answer your question in regards to “getting him to chase you,” but I think it would be worthwhile to do a self-check as to what you’re really after here.When he was pursuing you, you felt like you had control and could choose whether or not you wanted him around. You came back together and over time, things changed.
At this point, things are probably starting to get comfortable- you make plans regularly, you’re in contact more frequently, and a relationship seems just around the corner.
Now while you might start getting really excited by this prospect, this particular guy has probably gotten freaked out.
It’s just easy to forget the real reason for the season.
This time of year I try to remember our Christmas together after we got married. No stockings, gingerbread houses, or Christmas cards. We tried to get into the Christmas spirit by cutting out paper snowflakes and downloading Christmas songs from i Tunes.
At this point, he’s afraid that everything he said in the beginning has led you to believe that you guys are a couple and he starts acting in a way that shows you this is not the case.
He cancels plans, he goes MIA for days at a time, he acts distant.When I see you in the morning it brightens up my day there are so many thoughts on my mind so many words I want to say I want to tell you how I feel but the words I can not find they're all mixed up with my thoughts that are running through my mind I've been keeping it locked up because I know there's not a chance you never look my way you don't even take a glance You don't even know you're doing this toying with my heart I wish I could just tell you but I don't know where to start Should I tell you how much you mean to me or how bad I want to be with you if I were to say these things how would you react, what would you do Would you never talk to me again would you never look my way that would just bring me back to where I am today Then I'd start all over and choose a different route to make you understand my feelings that want out I don't know what to do or even how to say maybe I should lock it up and keep myself away My heart would ache even more but maybe for the good I just really want to tell you only if I could.Cate has a small boutique where she sells vintage clothes.To "my sweet girl" - his wife, Suzy - he's a doting pussycat.But Suzy is just home from the hospital and cared for 24/7 by nurse Natalie, whom Duncan tries his best to ignore.Duncan decides the best medicine Suzy could possibly have - and a Christmas present she'll never forget -- is a ride on a real Ferris wheel, set up in their own back yard. Because it was while riding one many moons ago that Duncan asked Suzy to marry him. Duncan strikes gold in an abandoned amusement park, presided over by a lonely ex-carnival worker -- Henry.