I hope I have debunked the fantasy that a man can fly into any foreign country and easily find his dream girl within a short amount of time.
How long will you date the Colombian for the novelty factor before easing back into your previous routine?
It’s not that difficult to have sex with a foreign girl who happens to be interested in foreign men.
Even in the poorest countries of the world, the most beautiful women have multiple strong options, and when you get into the 8 and 9 range, you will find it quite challenging to maintain a relationship with her since she has so many high-value local men in her orbit. Say that you studied Spanish in high school and later as an adult met a Colombian girl who moved to your city. She is quite pretty, but not higher than what you can normally get.
You begin dating her and appreciate her feminine qualities and exotic nature, but local girls above her beauty range still give you tons of attention, while the emotional connection with the Colombian is stunted because of not being able to communicate properly with her.
The rewards are far greater, of course, but traveling to an unknown land to develop a sexual and emotional connection with a woman who shares a completely different culture than you is no easy task, and should not be viewed as such.
It doesn’t help our cause that foreign women view us as a less worthy long-term partner than a local man.
Foreign women, on the other hand, tend to take better care of themselves and stay in shape and age better.
Obesity is not a major issue in many of the countries where these women reside.
A lot of times we get so busy explaining how wonderful an individual woman is that we tend to miss the big picture and forget about the incredible number of good reasons why international dating is so great... Dating a foreign woman gives you a chance to grow as a man and discover the happiness you deserve.
A lot of the most serious barriers to dating in the United States, Canada, and Europe simply do not exist and the new challenges that do exist are things that any man that makes the effort can overcome.
This is a challenge that you do not face at home, but it is also a chance for growth and development.